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And Then There Was Aubrey

Posted on July 2, 2017September 23, 2023 by Tressie

The antiseptic smell of the hospital. The hours of waiting. The decisive moment, when it is “time” for Aubrey’s birth.

Everything so similar, and yet at the same time…so different.

It’s hard to explain the mix of emotions surrounding the birth of my second grandchild. Thoughts of the beautiful boy Landon who we held for such a short time but were not able to bring home, the excitement of a little girl this time, anxiety and fear, overwhelming happiness and a small bit of guilt for that happiness. Wondering how your heart can possibly be big enough to fit all of the love for your children, and now grandchildren.

Dark hair, sweet fine features and a healthy wail. Aubrey is born.

And just like how your heart grows exponentially each time you have a child, so it does with the arrival of each grandchild. Our hearts are full.

Aubrey Harper - Tressie Davis Photography

Becoming a Grandma

Posted on May 29, 2017September 23, 2023 by Tressie

First Time Grandma — Photo Credit: http://www.touchoflovephotography.com/

I was not prepared when this journey began. None of us were. From shock at finding out I was to be a grandma, to acceptance, and finally to being over the moon excited to embrace my new role.

Heading into the ultrasound in early May of 2016 we chatted excitedly about whether the baby would be a boy or a girl, and even made a few jokes about the possibility of twins. Nothing seemed amiss – we weren’t concerned when the tech asked us to look away temporarily to take photos. The gender would be revealed at a party later on, and we didn’t want to ruin the surprise.

Then the tech left, and returned with a doctor. We were all still smiling, and happy. The last blissful minutes before our hearts were broken into a million pieces.

You see, the doctor had come in to inform us that the baby had anencephaly. The baby had not developed a brain.

Shocked silence. And then the sound of an intense pain that cannot be described…the sound coming from each one of us in that room. While we were still grasping reality, I watched my sons face. The handsome, loving face I have protected my entire life. I watched it crumple into a pain that no one should have to bear. A pain that I could do absolutely nothing to fix. I watched him provide comfort through his own pain. We came together holding, hugging, crying.

“Would you like to know if it is a girl or a boy?” the tech asked.

“Yes”, she whispered.

“It’s a boy”

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Endless tears and hugs later, the decision had been made to carry to term, and so we all settled in to wait.

In June of 2016 I received a phone call to tell me it was time. I picked up my camera and headed to the hospital. I was unsure what to expect, but what I found was the same anticipation and excitement as any birth. The same love.

Landon Mitchell Davis entered the world on June 23, 2016 at 9:47pm. At 1 lb, 2.9 ounces and 11 1/4″ long, he was a tiny, beautiful baby who would never take a breath in this world. He was perfect, down to his tiny little fingers and toes.

My first grandchild. The one we had to say goodbye to, so soon after saying hello. The one who has left a profound imprint on so many lives – not only his parents and grandparents, but the many aunts, uncles and extended family who so love him.

Celebrating who he is, we honor him in the ways that we can – photos on the wall, a memorial ornament on the Christmas tree at his grave, and the number 23 worn on the back of his 9 year old uncles hockey jersey.

Has it really been almost a year? It doesn’t seem possible, and yet here we are ready to head into June of 2017.

As we now anticipate the birth of Landon’s little sister Aubrey, due June 6, I am thinking of him. Hoping Landon knows how very loved he is, and how very loved his little sister will be. Hoping he is watching over Aubrey, and all of us as we embark on this newest journey.

For families experiencing the loss of an infant who are interested in remembrance photography, please contact https://www.nowilaymedowntosleep.org/. While we can no longer hold dear Landon, we will always have photos to remember him.

Teamwork Required for a Great Family Escape

Posted on March 28, 2017September 1, 2024 by Tressie

A Great Family Escape requires a survival vest

“What is this?”

“Tools. You will need them.”

*searches survival vest. finds flash light, string with magnet and other random items*

“Mom, I don’t want to go.”

“you’ll be fine”

“please, mom”

*grabs kid by the hand and drags her into a dark, post-apocalyptic kitchen….*

This was the beginning of the excitement at Escape Experience Chattanooga, our second escape experience as a family, and unknown to us Continue reading “Teamwork Required for a Great Family Escape” →

Packing for our Disney Cruise

Posted on August 31, 2016September 28, 2023 by Tressie

To say that I’m a bit anal about packing is the understatement of the century – and packing for a Disney Cruise took it to a whole new level.

How do you pack for comfort and convenience, as well as formal night, semi formal night, pirate night and those just in case scenarios? Ok, well the just in case scenario took a back seat, because with my family of 6 and our essentials, there was no room for a whole lot extra.

Rather than bore you with my entire packing list (Type A snooze-fest), I thought I’d share a few of the things that I was very thankful to have packed, and a few that we could have done without.

Disney Cruise Essentials

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Lanyard Holder/Pouch Combo

Disney Mickey Mouse Cross Body Shoulder Bag It was “just” large enough to fit everything I needed just about anywhere. Things I carried in it for most of the trip: phone (iPhone 6+), pocket camera, camera battery, lip balm, disney pins and hair ponies. There was also a clear window in back for my Key to the World Card (easy access was nice, considering we had to have a card inserted into a slot in the Stateroom entrance in order to use electricity – no card, no lights.)

I had also brought this smaller lanyard/case that ended up being too small for me, but my family members with smaller phones loved it; and this lanyard pouch was perfect for my kids.

Sony DSC-TX30/D 18 MP Digital Camera – I used this waterproof point and shoot far more than my DSLR. And while I’m not sure if I could ever leave my DSLR behind when I go on vacation, I seriously wonder what I needed it for this time around. Light, convenient, easy to use, and because this camera is waterproof I was able to take it with me everywhere and not worry about ruining it.

DIY Pirate Costumes

It is not mandatory to participate in Pirate Night, but so much fun that many of the passengers do it. I wish I could remember on which blog or pinterest page I saw the DIY Pirate Costumes so I could give them credit! If you search google (or look on pinterest) for DIY Pirate Costume, you will see this idea a lot – black pants (cut up sweat pants for the guys), white tshirts and red no-fray fabric cut into sashes. We supplemented with some inexpensive accessories purchased on Amazon and/or at the dollar store and voila, instant pirate! Robby had the coolest costume though – purchased second hand from a friend so he could be Captain Jack Sparrow. Robby says he can’t smile or his mustache will fall off. Disney will actually provide a bandana for each person in your stateroom, so you will have that as well.

Collapsible Laundry Basket

The Staterooms are manageable, but SMALL, especially if you are squeezing in four people per stateroom. They get messy quickly, and one thing I was thankful to have was a collapsible laundry basket for keeping the dirty clothes together off the floor and furniture. It also made it much easier to make a trip to the ship laundry room half way through our vacation. Because it folds completely flat, it was easy to pack into our checked luggage.

Disney Pins

My girls collect trading pins, and wanted a few Disney pins to be able to trade with the Officers and Crew Members on pin trading night. The pins are extremely expensive to purchase on the ship, so I bought a pack of 25 on Amazon HERE. Yes, I realize they are probably not “official”; no, my kids did not care (nor did anyone they traded with). I split the 25 between my three kids and gave the odd numbers out to my niece and nephew. It does take a couple of weeks for the pins to be delivered, so be sure to order early.

Other Helpful Items

Waterproof Mascara – I forgot mine, my daughter remembered hers. I was jealous.

Clothes Pins – You only need a few, they come in handy for securing wet clothing to the clotheslines available in the bathroom shower.

Disney Navigator App (Apple | Android)- ok we didn’t technically “bring” this, but we did download it onto our phones at home before leaving. It was indispensable when it came to planning our days/evenings, and knowing what time and where activities and events were being held. In addition to events, there is also an onboard chat/message function within the app that effectively allows you to “text” anyone you add as a contact. Ship wifi is free for Navigator App only.

Athletic or other close toed shoes – assuming you are doing an excursion that requires them. We signed up for the Zipline Tour on Tortola (so much fun!) which required them.

Door Magnets – not a necessity, but the kids had fun with these. Again, Google and Pintrest are your friends.

Leave Behind

If you’re googling “what to pack for Disney Cruise” then you will run across many articles that have long lists of items to bring that do seem clever or interesting. A few that I wish I had left home:

Item to leave at Guest Services for Characters to Sign – all we brought was a photo mat (though you will see suggestions for pillow cases and other items), but when I attempted to leave it at Guest Services to be signed and picked up later I was informed that they no longer do that, and the only option for character signing was to go around to each character with your item and request signatures. If my kids had been younger and interested in the autograph book option we may have done that, however I did not want to carry around the photo mat and ended up leaving it in the stateroom.

Power Strip – they are no longer allowed in the staterooms

Water bottles – we bought collapsible water bottles, but never used them. We did see other people using theirs, but for us it just seemed easier to use the cups provided. We did however purchase very expensive bottled water whenever we left the ship, which I suppose could have been avoided. Oh well, it was vacation.

Other options like hanging organizers, etc seemed pointless. Yes, the state rooms are small, but they are efficient and we found that there were plenty of options for storing/organizing our things if we bothered to put them away (especially with the collapsible laundry basket that we brought)

Conclusion

None of these tips will make or break your vacation. In the end we truly would have been fine without our “essential” items, and the things we packed but didn’t need were not a huge hinderance. Disney really does a great job of ensuring that guests are taken care of – if you forget anything, you will most likely be able to get it from Guest Services or purchase it in one of the shops on the ship.

No matter what – it is Magical…