And Then There Was Aubrey

Holding my new loveThe antiseptic smell of the hospital.  The hours of waiting.  The decisive moment, when it is “time” for Aubrey’s birth.

Everything so similar, and yet at the same time…so different.

It’s hard to explain the mix of emotions surrounding the birth of my second grandchild.  Thoughts of the beautiful boy Landon who we held for such a short time but were not able to bring home, the excitement of a little girl this time, anxiety and fear, overwhelming happiness and a small bit of guilt for that happiness.  Wondering how your heart can possibly be big enough to fit all of the love for your children, and now grandchildren.

Dark hair, sweet fine features and a healthy wail.  Aubrey is born.

And just like how your heart grows exponentially each time you have a child, so it does with the arrival of each grandchild.  Our hearts are full.

Meeting AubreyAubrey Harper - Tressie Davis PhotographyAubrey Harper - Tressie Davis Photography

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Tressie Davis is a blogger and photographer located in Chelsea, MI.

Becoming a Grandma

First Time Grandma
Photo Credit: http://www.touchoflovephotography.com/

I was not prepared when this journey began.  None of us were.  From shock at finding out I was to be a grandma, to acceptance, and finally to being over the moon excited to embrace my new role.

Heading into the ultrasound in early May of 2016 we chatted excitedly about whether the baby would be a boy or a girl, and even made a few jokes about the possibility of twins.   Nothing seemed amiss – we weren’t concerned when the tech asked us to look away temporarily to take photos.  The gender would be revealed at a party later on, and we didn’t want to ruin the surprise.

Then the tech left, and returned with a doctor.  We were all still smiling, and happy.  The last blissful minutes before our hearts were broken into a million pieces.

You see, the doctor had come in to inform us that the baby had anencephaly.  The baby had not developed a brain.

Shocked silence. And then the sound of an intense pain that cannot be described…the sound coming from each one of us in that room.  While we were still grasping reality, I watched my sons face.  The handsome, loving face I have protected my entire life.  I watched it crumple into a pain that no one should have to bear.  A pain that I could do absolutely nothing to fix.  I watched him provide comfort through his own pain.  We came together holding, hugging, crying.

“Would you like to know if it is a girl or a boy?” the tech asked.

“Yes”, she whispered.

“It’s a boy”

Endless tears and hugs later, the decision had been made to carry to term, and so we all settled in to wait.

In June of 2016 I received a phone call to tell me it was time. I picked up my camera and headed to the hospital.  I was unsure what to expect, but what I found was the same anticipation and excitement as any birth.  The same love.

Landon Mitchell Davis entered the world on June 23, 2016 at 9:47pm.  At 1 lb, 2.9 ounces and 11 1/4″ long, he was a tiny, beautiful baby who would never take a breath in this world.  He was perfect, down to his tiny little fingers and toes.

Landon Mitchell DavisMy first grandchild.  The one we had to say goodbye to, so soon after saying hello.  The one who has left a profound imprint on so many lives – not only his parents and grandparents, but the many aunts, uncles and extended family who so love him.

Celebrating who he is, we honor him in the ways that we can – photos on the wall, a memorial ornament on the Christmas tree at his grave, and the number 23 worn on the back of his 9 year old uncles hockey jersey.

Has it really been almost a year?  It doesn’t seem possible, and yet here we are ready to head into June of 2017.

As we now anticipate the birth of Landon’s little sister Aubrey, due June 6, I am thinking of him.  Hoping Landon knows how very loved he is, and how very loved his little sister will be.  Hoping he is watching over Aubrey, and all of us as we embark on this newest journey.

For families experiencing the loss of an infant who are interested in remembrance photography, please contact https://www.nowilaymedowntosleep.org/.  While we can no longer hold dear Landon, we will always have photos to remember him.

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Tressie Davis is a blogger and photographer located in Chelsea, MI.

Teamwork Required for a Great Family Escape

The quest for the VACCINE - Escape Experience Chattanooga

A Great Family Escape requires a survival vest

“What is this?”

“Tools.  You will need them.”

*searches survival vest.  finds flash light, string with magnet and other random items*

“Mom, I don’t want to go.”

“you’ll be fine”

“please, mom”

*grabs kid by the hand and drags her into a dark, post-apocalyptic kitchen….*

This was the beginning of the excitement at Escape Experience Chattanooga, our second escape experience as a family, and unknown to us Continue reading “Teamwork Required for a Great Family Escape”

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Tressie Davis is a blogger and photographer located in Chelsea, MI.

Review: CASE Air – Wireless Camera Tether

Note: Cheering  Tech provided me with a Case Air to complete this review.  All opinions are my own.

The CASE Air

The CASE Air is a wireless tethering system that uses it’s own built in wifi to connect and transfer images from your camera to a phone, tablet or computer, as well as control your DSLR directly from your smart phone or tablet.

In February 2016, I reviewed the original CASE Remote, and when offered the chance to review the new CASE Air, I jumped.

It seems that a portrait photographer like me wouldn’t have a use for this awesome piece of technology.  I mean, I take pictures of other people, so I can just hold the darn camera, right?  The problem is, I’m always preaching to people to make sure that the family photographer has photos of themselves…and I’m not always good at practicing what I preach. (random arms length selfies do not count).   Having used the original CASE Remote to take photos of myself for the past year, I am excited to see what the CASE Air brings to the table.

What is Included, and how does it compare to the original CASE Remote?

The Case Air arrived in a small box containing the CASE Air, 5 cables, a strap and what I assume is a tool for putting the strap on the CASE Air.  I never did figure out how to get the strap on it, but not a big deal because I really don’t need it anyway as I just connect it to my hot shoe.  One of the supplied cables is used for charging  the CASE Air, the other 4 are for connecting to different types of cameras (cables for both my Nikon D800 and D3 were supplied).

In comparison to the original CASE Remote, the CASE Air is smaller and lighter as would be expected.  The charge indicator lights are tiny compared to the CASE Remote and does make it somewhat difficult to see the status unless you are right next to it.

The CASE Air uses the same smartphone app as the original CASE Remote, and I already had it on my iPhone so did not have to download.  The included instructions are well written and easy to follow, connection to the built in wifi was just as easy as with the original CASE, and even though I did still have trouble with interference from my home wifi, once I turned it off the connection to the CASE Remotes built in wifi was fast and it stayed connected without any further issue.

Self Portraits with the CASE Air

The CASE Remote App interface allows me to adjust all of my camera settings remotely, including focus, which is incredibly helpful when trying to take a self portrait.  Before the awesomeness that is CASE, I was reduced to pre-focusing on another object placed where I would stand or using a camera remote blind, and hoping that the focus point was on my face.  The CASE Air and App allow me to see my composition while I am in the frame, which makes self portraits much easier.

I had issues with the original CASE Remote outdoors in the cold, so I decided to try the CASE Air outside.  I was pleasantly surprised that the wifi connected quickly, and remained connected for the entire hour I was outdoors shooting – definitely a noticeable improvement.

A few of the shots I took using the CASE Air are at the bottom of this article.  Isn’t my Maizie beautiful?

Pros

  • Easy to connect to the built in wifi, and connection remained solid while using, even outdoors
  • Smaller and lighter than the original CASE Remote
  • Ability to control camera settings through the App, including ISO, Shutter Speed, Aperture, etc and modes (time-lapse, bracketing, etc)
  • LOVE the touch to focus, pinch to zoom through the iPhone app

Cons

  • When using continuous shots, there was a significant delay before the CASE App was ready to do another round of shots
  • Playback was slow(ish)

Overall

The CASE Air is smaller, lighter and faster than the original CASE Remote, and the connection more reliable – definitely an improved product (though I love the CASE Remote too!)  It’s easy to use, and the creative possibilities are endless.

The CASE Air is currently available for $159.99.

To learn more about the CASE Air and other Cheering Tech products, visit http://www.caseremote.com/

Winter Walk - with CASE Air

Self Portrait - with CASE Air

Maizie and Me - with the CASE Air

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Tressie Davis is a blogger and photographer located in Chelsea, MI.

Packing for our Disney Cruise

2016-08-23_0002To say that I’m a bit anal about packing is the understatement of the century – and packing for a Disney Cruise took it to a whole new level.

How do you pack for comfort and convenience, as well as formal night, semi formal night, pirate night and those just in case scenarios?  Ok, well the just in case scenario took a back seat, because with my family of 6 and our essentials, there was no room for a whole lot extra.

Rather than bore you with my entire packing list (Type A snooze-fest), I thought I’d share a few of the things that I was very thankful to have packed, and a few that we could have done without.

Disney Cruise Essentials

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Lanyard Holder/Pouch Combo

Disney Mickey Mouse Cross Body Shoulder Bag  It was “just” large enough to fit everything I needed just about anywhere.  Things I carried in it for most of the trip:  phone (iPhone 6+), pocket camera, camera battery, lip balm, disney pins and hair ponies.  There was also a clear window in back for my Key to the World Card (easy access was nice, considering we had to have a card inserted into a slot in the Stateroom entrance in order to use electricity – no card, no lights.)

Disney Cross Body Bag - Disney Cruise Essential

I had also brought this smaller lanyard/case that ended up being too small for me, but my family members with smaller phones loved it; and this lanyard pouch was perfect for my kids.

Sony DSC-TX30/D 18 MP Digital Camera – I used this waterproof point and shoot far more than my DSLR.  And while I’m not sure if I could ever leave my DSLR behind when I go on vacation, I seriously wonder what I needed it for this time around.   Light, convenient, easy to use, and because this camera is waterproof I was able to take it with me everywhere and not worry about ruining it. 

DIY Pirate Costumes

It is not mandatory to participate in Pirate Night, but so much fun that many of the passengers do it.  I wish I could remember on which blog or pinterest page I saw the DIY Pirate Costumes so I could give them credit!  If you search google (or look on pinterest) for DIY Pirate Costume, you will see this idea a lot – black pants (cut up sweat pants for the guys), white tshirts and red no-fray fabric cut into sashes.  We supplemented with some inexpensive accessories purchased on Amazon and/or at the dollar store and voila, instant pirate!  Robby had the coolest costume though – purchased second hand from a friend so he could be Captain Jack Sparrow.  Robby says he can’t smile or his mustache will fall off.  Disney will actually provide a bandana for each person in your stateroom, so you will have that as well.

DIY Pirate Costumes on Pirate Night - Disney Cruise

Collapsible Laundry Basket

The Staterooms are manageable, but SMALL, especially if you are squeezing in four people per stateroom.  They get messy quickly, and one thing I was thankful to have was a collapsible laundry basket for keeping the dirty clothes together off the floor and furniture.  It also made it much easier to make a trip to the ship laundry room half way through our vacation.  Because it folds completely flat, it was easy to pack into our checked luggage.

Disney Pins

My girls collect trading pins, and wanted a few Disney pins to be able to trade with the Officers and Crew Members on pin trading night.  The pins are extremely expensive to purchase on the ship, so I bought a pack of 25 on Amazon HERE.  Yes, I realize they are probably not “official”; no, my kids did not care (nor did anyone they traded with).  I split the 25 between my three kids and gave the odd numbers out to my niece and nephew.   It does take a couple of weeks for the pins to be delivered, so be sure to order early.

Other Helpful Items

Waterproof Mascara – I forgot mine, my daughter remembered hers.  I was jealous.

Clothes Pins – You only need a few, they come in handy for securing wet clothing to the clotheslines available in the bathroom shower.

Disney Navigator App (Apple | Android)- ok we didn’t technically “bring” this, but we did download it onto our phones at home before leaving.  It was indispensable when it came to planning our days/evenings, and knowing what time and where activities and events were being held.  In addition to events, there is also an onboard chat/message function within the app that effectively allows you to “text” anyone you add as a contact. Ship wifi is free for Navigator App only.

Athletic or other close toed shoes – assuming you are doing an excursion that requires them.  We signed up for the Zipline Tour on Tortola (so much fun!) which required them.

Door Magnets – not a necessity, but the kids had fun with these.  Again, Google and Pintrest are your friends.

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Leave Behind

If you’re googling “what to pack for Disney Cruise” then you will run across many articles that have long lists of items to bring that do seem clever or interesting.  A few that I wish I had left home:

Item to leave at Guest Services for Characters to Sign – all we brought was a photo mat (though you will see suggestions for pillow cases and other items), but when I attempted to leave it at Guest Services to be signed and picked up later I was informed that they no longer do that, and the only option for character signing was to go around to each character with your item and request signatures.  If my kids had been younger and interested in the autograph book option we may have done that, however I did not want to carry around the photo mat and ended up leaving it in the stateroom.

Power Strip – they are no longer allowed in the staterooms

Water bottles – we bought collapsible water bottles, but never used them.  We did see other people using theirs, but for us it just seemed easier to use the cups provided.  We did however purchase very expensive bottled water whenever we left the ship, which I suppose could have been avoided.  Oh well, it was vacation.

Other options like hanging organizers, etc seemed pointless.  Yes, the state rooms are small, but they are efficient and we found that there were plenty of options for storing/organizing our things  if we bothered to put them away (especially with the collapsible laundry basket that we brought)

Conclusion

None of these tips will make or break your vacation.  In the end we truly would have been fine without our “essential” items, and the things we packed but didn’t need were not a huge hinderance.  Disney really does a great job of ensuring that guests are taken care of – if you forget anything, you will most likely be able to get it from Guest Services or purchase it in one of the shops on the ship.

No matter what – it is Magical…

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Tressie Davis is a blogger and photographer located in Chelsea, MI.